HOW TO PLAN YOUR BACHELOR OR BACHELORETTE PARTY? IT'S EASY.
#1 Choose the "11"
Create a WhatsApp group with the people you think will join, and see who responds.
Give it a few days to see who’s really in.
Whoever confirms is in.
Whoever doesn’t say anything? Leave the group.
Only the true ones stay.
#2 D-Day
Post 2 or 3 possible dates in the group and ask them to vote.
Keep the options simple and avoid confusion by not including too many “what if…” scenarios.
After a few days, go on a date with whoever replied.
It’s better to go on a date with someone who’s interested than to spend weeks waiting for confirmations that never come.
#3 Talk about money without drama
Before you start making plans, agree with the group on how much each person is willing to spend.
It doesn't have to be exact, but an estimate helps: lodging + dinner + activity = X€ per person.
And there’s an important decision that should be settled early on:
Does the bride or groom pay for their own, or does the group cover it?
If the cost is split among everyone, be sure to include that in the final total right away.
#4 Where are we going? What are we going to do?
Now that you know who’s going and when, it’s time to decide where to go.
A big city with a lively nightlife? Something more laid-back on the beach?
There are options for every style—and budget.
Make a shortlist of 2 or 3 destinations and share it with the group.
Quick votes, no drama. The important thing is that everyone’s on the same page.
Check out our activities and accommodations: Porto, Lisbon, the Algarve, and Vigo.
#5 Suit Up
If you already know where it's going to be… now it's time to think about the drip.
Any farewell worth its salt has style—whether it’s matching T-shirts, real sunglasses, or that one accessory that makes the group look like a crew.
Not sure where to start? We've put together a selection just for this.
Check out the accessories, coordinate with the group, and choose your mission uniform.
#6 Now it's up to us
Got your plan pretty much sorted? Perfect!
That's where we jump in as your ultimate support.
Tell us your destination, dates, and the group’s vibe—and we’ll send you a personalized quote with everything you need for a stress-free (and super stylish) bachelor/ette party.
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#7 Show it to the gang
Do you have the budget yet? Great. Now post it in the group and see how people react.
Check to see if everyone’s on board, and if anything needs to be adjusted, let us know.
Want to swap activities, change dates, or adjust prices? Let’s do it.
We still have time to iron everything out.
#8 Stress-Free Payments
The plan is set, the budget is finalized… now comes the least exciting part: paying.
But it doesn't have to be complicated—just decide right away how you're going to do it:
- Does everyone make a transfer to the person in charge?
- Or would you rather split the bill via MBWay?
- Are you going to ask for 50% now and the rest closer to the date?
Set this up in the group and set clear deadlines.
You can even create a shared file with the names of those who have already paid—it helps avoid confusion and hassles later on.
And of course, if we're handling the organization, we'll help you with that, too.
#9 Check out the area
Before you finalize everything, open the map and explore your destination.
See where your lodging is, the liveliest areas, bars, restaurants, and spots for your main activity.
You can even create a shared map on Google Maps with the group's favorite spots—it's easy and helps avoid surprises like, "We're far from everything."
The better they know the terrain, the better the plan will go.
#10 Go out with a bang
Do you want to take this from an 8/10 to a 12/10? Here are some extra tips that make all the difference:
- Bring a disposable camera or designate a “crew photographer”
- Create a shared playlist on Spotify with songs that mean something to you
- Plan a surprise for the groom (or bride)
- Pick a meeting spot “just in case things go wrong” 😅
The Bachelor/ette party doesn't have to be complicated —
It just has to be unforgettable.
GROUP ACTIVITIES FOR YOUR BACHELOR/BACHELORETTE PARTY
Find the One
Before leaving home, everyone puts 10€ in a bag and hands it to the groom. He collects the total, puts on his special outfit (chosen by the group, of course), and receives a map with 20 possible bars.
Then what? He picks one and disappears.
The rest of the group splits into teams (of 2 or 3 people) and the hunt begins: at every bar where he isn’t, they have to have a drink (no cheating). When they find the groom? They can start spending the “prize.”
But be careful: only the first person to find it will get the most out of it. By the time the others arrive, there might not be any change left.
👉 We have the complete kit—including the outfit and the bar map—all set for this in Porto, Lisbon, Albufeira (Oura), Albufeira (Old Town), or Vigo.
Challenge Accepted
A HenStag party isn't just about drinks—it's a mission. And that mission comes with its challenges.
Prepare a series of challenges for the bride or groom and find a fun (and stylish) way to present them:
1. Badges with slots
Make (or buy) a vest or sash with “slot”-like spaces. Each friend brings a badge with a challenge. The bride or groom collects badges throughout the evening until they have the complete set.
2. T-shirt with a list of challenges
Print the challenges on the back of the bride or groom’s T-shirt. Every time they complete one, they cross it off with a marker. It’s easy, inexpensive, and everyone stays in the loop.
3. Mini trophies or medals
Each participant receives a small medal or trophy with an assigned challenge. The bride or groom earns them as they complete the challenges. Perfect to keep as a memento of a legendary night.
4. Challenge Cards
Turn challenges into cards. Each person hands out their card throughout the night, at just the right moments. You never know what’s coming next.
Check out our accessories page—you’ll find all of this there.
Awards
Before the trip, the group decides on a list of prizes.
During the HenStag, they keep an eye on who deserves what—and at the end, they hand out the rewards, complete with speeches, trophies, or punishments.
1. Revelation – Who was the biggest surprise (for better or for worse)?
2. The Biggest Drunk – The person who went too far.
3. Best Failed Pickup Line – He tried, he failed, and he’ll never forget it.
4. The first to throw up—no explanation needed.
5. MVP of the HenStag – The player who contributed the most.
6. Drama Queen/King – For the most intense performance.
7. Best Outfit – The most stylish or the most ridiculous.
8. Missing in Action – He disappeared for hours… and no one really knows why.
9. Best Dance – Memorable Moves.
10. I Don't Remember a Thing – For those who need to have everything recounted to them the next day.
Songs & Stories
Before the trip, each person chooses a song that holds special meaning:
—whether it’s a story involving their fiancé(e), a memorable moment for the group, or just something that represents that friendship.
During the ride, the playlist plays—and whenever it’s your song’s turn, you’re the one who tells the story behind why you chose it.
Party Patrol
During the trip, one member of the group (or several, taking turns) wears an accessory—a cap, badge, or sash—and takes on the role of “HenStag Police.”
His job?
To impose symbolic fines on those who break certain “rules” of the group.
Some examples of violations:
- Using your cell phone for more than 5 minutes at a time
- Falling asleep on public transportation
- Telling the same story for the third time
- Complaining about a hangover
- Taking too long to get ready
- Forgetting something important (wallet, charger, etc.)
For each “ticket,” the person must perform a lighthearted or funny penalty (e.g., give someone in the group a compliment, sing a song, take a selfie with a stranger, etc.).
Bonus: The “police officer” can change every day or be democratically elected.
Banned Words
Before the trip begins, each person chooses a forbidden word —any word they like.
The rule: Once all the words have been chosen, no one in the group is allowed to say any of them.
If someone says a forbidden word, they get a penalty: it could be drinking, singing, making a fool of themselves, or whatever the person who came up with the word decides.
Secret Missions
Before the trip begins, each person receives (or is assigned by lottery) one or more secret missions —these can be delivered on a folded piece of paper, in an envelope, or via a private message.
Examples of missions:
- Get someone from the group to sing in public
- Take a selfie with a stranger
- Switching seats with someone at a restaurant
- Offering a shot to a stranger
- Come up with a nickname and get someone in the group to use it for 30 minutes
The goal is to complete the mission without getting caught by the group.
If someone becomes suspicious and says “Mission!” + explains why, the mission is considered a failure.
If it is completed discreetly, the person earns 1 point.
At the end of the trip, the points are tallied, and the group chooses the best secret agent.
There may even be a prize or special award.
Snack Dealer
Each person starts with a snack they bought before the trip—it can be something simple or even a bit odd (like a bag of lupini beans, an energy bar, a slightly ripe banana... whatever you like).
During the trip, the goal is to convince strangers to trade their snack for something “better.” Anything goes: another food item, an accessory, a souvenir from the city… what counts is creativity (and smooth talk!).
At the end of the day, everyone shows what they managed to trade. The group votes on which item was the most epic or unlikely.
🥇 The winner gets a prize.
❌ Anyone who didn’t manage to make a single trade… faces a fitting punishment.
Photo Bomb Hunt
During the trip, each person has to sneak into three photos of strangers —in classic photobomb style.
It could be a group taking a selfie, tourists posing, or even someone at a restaurant taking a picture of their meal. The important thing is to be clearly visible.
At the end of the trip, everyone must provide proof—it can be recorded directly, or, ideally, someone in the group witnessed it.
🎉 Whoever passes all 3 challenges avoids the penalty.
🥴 Whoever doesn't… has to drink (or carry out a penalty chosen by the group).
The Ultimate Quiz
During the trip, the group tests the groom (or bride) with a personalized quiz—created by someone who knows him or her well.
Before saying goodbye, each member of the group asks the bride or groom questions about their past, secrets, embarrassing moments, or funny stories:
- What was the name of your first crush in school?
- What's your favorite dish?
- What strange habit do you have when you sleep?
- Where did that senior class trip go?
- What is that phrase he/she always says?
Ask the questions one by one, without warning.
Get it wrong? A forfeit or a shot.
Get it right? The whole group drinks.
You can also give them a “scorecard” where they add (or lose) points, with a symbolic prize at the end (or a penalty if they have fewer than X points).
CHALLENGES FOR THE BRIDE AND GROOM
Questions Game
You’re asked 15 questions about your future spouse. Every time you get an answer wrong, you have to drink or take a penalty chosen by the group. Did you get it right? Then the whole group drinks.
Karaoke Challenge
They take him/her to the karaoke bar and choose a song. Even if it's not available, he/she has to choose another one and sing the song the group picked, ignoring the screen.
The Tattoo Dare
It can be a real tattoo (if you're crazy) or a temporary one. The group chooses the design.
Chef for a Day
The group leaves the ingredients and a recipe (e.g., eggs Benedict). The bride or groom has to cook for everyone, without any help. The result? We all have to eat it.
DJ Request Mission
The group chooses a song. The bride or groom has to make sure that a bar or café plays that same song during the bachelor/bachelorette party.
Earpiece Mission
With an earpiece in their ear and someone on the phone, the bride or groom enters a store alone and must repeat everything the group tells them while interacting with an employee.
Wedding Street Interviews
Go up to strangers on the street and interview them about what they think of marriage. You can use a toy microphone for this.
Forbidden Words
You have to convince a stranger to dance without using words like "dance," "music," "movement," or "dancing."
Barber Exit
He goes in to get a shave, and halfway through, he makes up an excuse to leave and never comes back.
Shoot Me!
He sits in the middle of a square holding a sign that says "Shoot me." Next to him is a water gun on a tripod. Let's see how many people show up.
Mystery Shot
A shot made with ingredients chosen by the group. The bride or groom has to guess what’s in it. Get it wrong? Try again.
Truth or Shot
5 personal questions. If you don't want to answer, you have to take a drink. If you do answer... it might be even worse 😅
Shot Roulette
Three glasses: one good, one average, one terrible. Choose one without knowing which is which.
Serenade to a Stranger
Sing a romantic song to a stranger, as seriously as possible.
Dancefloor Hero
You have to be the first one on the dance floor, all by yourself, and you can't stop until someone else joins you.
Marriage Advice Collector
Ask strangers for tips on how to have a happy marriage. You can record it and share it later.
Stranger Proposal
You have to pretend to propose to a stranger in public.
Ice Ice Baby
Walk for 15 minutes with ice cubes in your shoes without complaining.
Costume Run
Go for a short run outside wearing a ridiculous costume.
Love Letter
Read aloud a romantic letter written by someone in the group.
Human Statue Challenge
Stand completely still for 5 minutes in a busy area.
Selfie Scavenger Hunt
A list of selfies featuring people with different characteristics (e.g., beards, glasses, etc.).
Mixologist
Come up with a cocktail using secret ingredients and convince someone at the bar to try it.
Backwards Clothes Day
Wear your clothes completely inside out for an hour.
Slogan Shoutout
Shout out a catchphrase chosen by the group every 10 minutes.
Language Switch
You can only speak to strangers in a foreign language.
Hug a Stranger
Give 3 hugs to strangers in less than 5 minutes.
Flash Mob Starter
Start a choreographed dance in public with the group (or by yourself).
Toastmaster Challenge
Make a heartfelt toast at a bar, so everyone can hear it.
Dance Battle
Challenge a stranger to a dance-off.
Street Performer
Singing or playing an instrument while wearing a hat and asking for coins.
Bartender's Choice
Ask the bartender for a challenge. You have to accept it without knowing what it is.
The Accent Game
Speak with an accent of the group's choice for 20 minutes.
Body Shot
Take a body shot with someone from the group or a stranger—whichever the group chooses.
Kiss a Stranger
You have to kiss a stranger (on the cheek or on the mouth—the group decides).
Find a Condom
You have to get a condom from a stranger.
Phone Number Hunt
You have to get two cell phone numbers from people of the opposite sex.
Underwear Heist
You need to borrow a pair of boxers or a bra from someone (in a respectful way).
Convince Strip
Convincing a stranger to take off his shirt—anything goes, except paying.
5 Free Drinks
Get them to offer you 5 different drinks throughout the evening.
Autographed T-Shirts
Walk around with a marker and get 10 signatures on the T-shirt from different people.
Jägerbomb Time
Drink a Jägerbomb without making a face—while the group watches.
Get a Lap Dance
You have to get a lap dance—it can be real, improvised, or even from a friend, if everyone agrees.
Strangers Kissing
You have to convince two people of the opposite sex to kiss (with their consent, of course!).
Get a Twerk
Getting someone to twerk for you—on the street, at a bar, or on the dance floor.
Dance with a Bride or Groom
You have to find a real bride or groom and dance with her or him for at least 30 seconds.
The Embarrassing Purchase
Go to a store and buy a porn magazine, a box of tissues, and a bottle of moisturizer. All at the same time. You can't give the clerk any explanation.
Arm-Wrestle a Bouncer
Challenge a security guard to an arm-wrestling match. If he accepts and loses, the group gets a free round. If they lose, they pay the bill!
Meet My Fiancée
Walking around with an inflatable doll for an hour, introducing her as his future wife.
Am I Making a Mistake?
Approach three strangers and ask them, with a serious expression: "Do you think I'm making a big mistake?"
PORTO
Welcome to Invicta!
Porto is located in northern Portugal, along the Douro River, and is the country's second-largest city. It is a city full of contrasts: historic facades and narrow streets, but also modern buildings, a vibrant cultural scene, and a lively local atmosphere.
Climate
Porto has hot, dry summers—typically between 22 and 25 °C.
In the winter, the weather is usually damp and cool, with average daytime temperatures ranging from 10 to 15 °C.
It rains the most from November through March; the driest months are July and August.
Airport & Transportation
The Porto Airport (OPO) is about 10–12 km from downtown.
There is a direct subway line to downtown (about 30–40 minutes).
When it comes to transportation, there is no shortage of public options, such as the subway and buses, as well as private transportation options, such as Uber and Bolt.
Hospitality
When you arrive, you’ll immediately feel welcomed by the people of Porto, who are known for treating every visitor like an old friend. It’s common for the bar to become a place where stories are shared, and a welcoming glass of red wine unlocks exclusive tips on hidden bars and secret viewpoints.
Energy in the Streets and Markets
Porto comes alive early in the morning: the day begins with bustling cafés, people on the streets, lively markets, and stalls selling local products. Discovering little treasures—handcrafted goods, food, music—with friends becomes part of the experience. The narrow streets and hills invite you to explore, have spontaneous conversations, and stumble upon unexpected encounters with street art, music, or interesting people.
Nightlife, bars, and live music
Bars with outdoor seating, terraces overlooking the river, small taverns, and cocktail bars mingle with more intimate clubs and live music venues. It’s easy to hop from one place to another, depending on what the group feels like: a quiet drink here, a dance floor there, good conversation, laughter, and toasts. The night is meant to last—unhurried, but with a desire to make things happen.
Gastronomy
One of Porto’s must-try specialties is the francesinha—a hearty dish stuffed with meat, melted cheese, and that rich, unmistakable sauce. And you simply can’t leave the city without trying it.
Port wine is a fortified wine made in the Douro Valley—rich, sweet, and full of character. It’s perfect for toasting—served in a small glass, on its own or with dessert. It comes in various styles: fruity, oaky, or aged, each with its own distinctive character.
Daytime Activities
A hearty breakfast at a local bakery—all-you-can-eat traditional pastries.
Then, a free-spirited exploration of the city center: Ribeira, narrow streets, street art, stairways, and viewpoints.
When you want to get your adrenaline pumping: go-karting, paintball, dune buggy rides, or even a pole-dancing class—the choice is up to the group, and so is the laughter.
Then, a leisurely cruise on the Douro—see the bridges up close, feel the river.
And when you want to get into the party spirit: taste Port wine in a cellar, try a themed escape room, go to a boat party, ride a beer bike, or have fun on a private boat.
Sunset
To watch the sunset, head to the Passeio das Virtudes Lookout, which offers a direct view of the Douro River—a great spot to relax with a drink in hand while the sky changes color. On the Gaia side, you’ll find the Jardim do Morro, which offers an iconic setting full of energy and good vibes. And there’s also the Serra do Pilar Viewpoint, where you can enjoy a majestic view of the historic center and the river—perfect for ending the day on a high note.
Evening Activities
There are plenty of great restaurants in Porto for groups: spacious restaurants that can comfortably seat 10, 15, or 20 friends without feeling cramped. Some options are located in central areas, offering traditional or modern menus, almost always featuring dishes designed for sharing—fish, seafood, grilled meats, cod, francesinhas, or special group menus.
After dinner, head first to Jardim da Cordoaria, where the concentration of traditional bars guarantees drinks at attractive prices—the perfect spot to get the group in the mood without breaking the bank. Just a few steps away, head up to the streets of Galerias de Paris, where the dance floors start to beckon: these bars feature lively music and cocktails that blend flavor and rhythm, keeping the party going.
Bars & Nightclubs
Now that you’re all warmed up, explore Porto’s most iconic clubs: Maus Hábitos—where experimental electronic music blends with house; Eskada—perfect for VIP nights to the sound of reggaeton; Boîte—a lounge atmosphere with sophisticated dance-pop; Plano B—two rooms where hip-hop, indie, and electronic music come together; and Gare Porto—a true underground sanctuary for top-notch techno.
